Porn Blocking Software

The perniciousness of the subject requires that porn blocking software be installed on the computers that are owned or used by families or individuals that recognize the "black hole" effect pornography can have on a human heart and mind. While the subject matter is becoming more and more routine with American media and a source of humor for many comedians, the reality of this medium is much more sinister than jokes about watching it would ever attest. There is the reality for many men, both young and old, that a very real addiction to sexually explicit material can become the drug of choice for otherwise healthy, thriving and intelligent men who would never consider ingesting any kind of pharmacological drug. Yet this drug of choice can be just as debilitating, just as numbing and just as much a killer of good and strong relationships as cocaine or crack because exposure to this kind of medium is like drinking salt water from the ocean; the thirst doesn't do away and in fact it takes more and harder core material to continue to satisfy the desire. Many wives can attest to the fact that somewhere along the way in a good and happy marriage, their husbands changed in an unexplained manner, but later was completely understood when the reason for the change finally was made known. Men that were once loving and attentive became secretive and demanding and began focusing on the negative physical features and lack of sexual creativity on their wife's part and complaints about those issues dominated the relationship with words that were never part of the relationship before.

Few wives would ever have a problem or an argument over installing free pornography blocking software on any computer. It is rare that a woman ever has an interest, let alone an addiction to pornography, for God has created women to be relationship driven and not visually driven when it comes to sexual matters. Someone wrote many years ago that "sex begins in the kitchen," and that is an affirmation of the idea that a healthy sexual relationship between husband and wife begins at the morning breakfast table with loving words, kind deeds and a focus on conversation that continues through the entire day. For the man, words are rarely important, sparkling conversation is not required and just a glimpse of a partially dressed woman can send him over the edge, thus the incredible power of pornography. A woman could certainly agree to porn blocking software, but the problem comes with the man. Without a real understanding of what exposure to that medium can do to a man's heart and soul, it is a joke, a simple past time and perhaps a way to vent some misogynistic attitudes. After all, a hatred or a despising of women begins to surface when sexually explicit material starts to cause a man to compare his wife or loved one to something seen on a computer screen or in a magazine thus birthing a desire to have some different experience with someone more "perfect" or appealing to him.

Many parents want their children guarded from ever accidentally coming across a site promoting explicit material and blocking software can help to accomplish that desire. One very cool way to have free pornography blocking software is to go to a site that doesn't use software, but rather helps parents configure the computer to filter out pornography by domain name. Any kind of words in a domain name even closely resembling sleazy material can be filtered out ninety nine out of one hundred times and the viewing door slams shut. While teenagers can often figure out passwords of software, the website OpenDNS can show parents how to almost certainly tamper proof this free pornography blocking software method and know if the settings have ever been changed. Porn blocking software is available to any parent wanting to protect his/her children, but it should be noted that many people with the moral and Christian desire to keep themselves and their children from this kind of harm have found all explicit site blocking software to have severe limitations and not matter how much parents want it, complete freedom from such influence is nonexistent. So if free pornography blocking software isn't one hundred percent successful, what is a parent to do?

One free pornography blocking software service is more of a detective type service, offering parents complete ability to track what sites children are visiting and even what keystrokes are being struck. The service also touts its service for those wondering if a spouse is visiting questionable sites and having online chats with other people what could be harmful to a relationship. This kind of one sided surveillance smacks of a relationship already in trouble and needing real counseling, but the porn blocking software service could be helpful for monitoring the Internet use by children from afar. IN this manner, a parent could approach a child with teaching in mind regarding the importance of guarding against harmful influences. "Finally brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things." (Philippians 4:8)

Because this subject is one not talked about enough in the topic of divorce in America, a challenge is issued to married Christian couples and those wanting to have no walls or barriers between them: talk about the husband's use of the computer. If there is a strong temptation to view pornography or lingerie ads or swimsuit ads or any other related topics, talk about the issue. Talk about how pornography can make the wife feel if a husband practices such viewing. Ask why the husband feels drawn to such material. Seek help and counseling and husbands, welcome the intervention and be honest, because someone loves you infinitely more than does an image on a computer screen.

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